LOSS OF PET PART TWO

LOSS OF PET PART TWO

As an owner as well, you must understand that pets cannot just “be replaced”.  While you may feel empty and want to replace your pet right away it is a good idea to take the time to grieve, celebrate your pet’s life, and then prepare to make new memories with a new pet.  You never want to search for pet to replace your lost one, as no two pets will be the same.

Do not rush through the grieving process, because you feel as though you should, and it’s just a pet.  The same as with human loss the grieving process can take time, and will come in stages.  Pets that have been in our lives for years will take longer to get over.  

Seek out friends who are pet owners that have experienced the loss of a pet. They will be your support as they understand your feelings more than someone who has never had that bond.  You can share memories together and assist in the grieving process.

You may find that when you are ready to bring a new pet in your life, it might be beneficial to seek a new breed.  The new pet will never replace the old one, and this may help keep your from comparing and allow you to enjoy your new pets personality.  Let the bonding process begin, and soon you will be on your way to another new friendship. The vets at Boca Village can help you find a new pet to begin bonding with.